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Ideally, children raised by mothers and fathers in the institution of the nuclear family. However in some cases not little kids only get one of the figures, as only a mother who raised him. This can be because their parents are divorced or one of them died.
However, a child must still obtain a father figure who will give affection. If the child is only brought up or just getting parenting of the mother, you should consider the following to bad psychological impact of children who only get mother's parenting can be reduced.
Search Figure Substitute
The first thing to do is replace the father figure for the child of another person, such as grandparents, uncles, to your friends. Let the children take time as playing, learning, or simply take a walk with them so that the child can get from their father figure.
Being a father role
Because parenting a mother and father would be different, like how to play, you are expected to act as a father in parenting. For example, when children play asks you to be a robot or a game that is usually played by boys, especially if your child is a boy.
Give explanation Actually
You should explain to the child what actually happened. For example, you and your husband to explain divorced or died with the explanation that can be understood a child at her age. Never lie to a child about divorce or separation that you had with your ex-husband.
Give More Time For Kids
Although now you are a single parent who must finance all the needs of your child and yourself as well tend to be busy, you should still be able to spend more time to children. Because, at this time the child really need affection and attention.
It should be noted, though kesibukkan you for the welfare of the child, the fact that you are doing is for the child. So it is advisable to keep working and still have quality time and care for children.
