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Many couples often argue, but if you are having problems-that again, it is a sign you need berubah.Berikut is a way to find the cause of the six most common disputes and ways to solve them.
Here's how to find the cause of the six most common disputes and ways to solve them.
Money
He was angered by spending money to buy beauty products and you upset because she patronizing about money. Or maybe you are fed up of having to be responsible to control the household budget. Whatever, disputes over money are almost always related to who's in control or responsibility.
How to cope
People used may have a joint bank account, but you do not have to follow it. Agree on a monthly budget to finance the joint expenses, such as mortgage or food. If you have to pay the household expenses, you just may spend the money on items you like.
Homework
Are you living with your partner lazy to clean the toilet? If you're both working, only fair if split evenly homework. If most of the clean-up tasks, reasonable if you feel slighted.
How to cope
Termudahnya way is to hire a house cleaner. If you do not want it that way, divide the homework (you'll cook if she washed the dishes / You'll wash if her mop and sweep). After dividing the tasks then there will be no such thing as complaining.
Family
You can not stand if the mother-in-law advising on how to raise a child and he threatened to stay home if you held a great family holiday. If the partner's family began to meddle in the affairs of your household, it is not wrong if you feel annoyed.
How to cope
If you can not understand the law, limit the time to meet with them. Promise that you will both attend several family events together, but also visit the families themselves separately. In case of dispute, has always sided with the pair if required.
Friends
We all love it if couples are familiar with our friends - and vice versa. Sometimes it is difficult, making it impossible to be realized. If you no longer wish to meet with his or her boring disrespectful towards you, to be honest partner.
How to copeNo one is like being forced to do something they do not want. There is no point (and unhealthy) to try to force people to like each other. Instead, prioritize time together as a couple and set a time when you both can play with their friends.
Flirting
He was challenged to stocking charm to every woman he met and you also feel it does not matter if it went with a friend a man, without him. Seducing may imply problems in a relationship, and it can create insecurity in relationships.
How to copeExplain to your partner that his behavior makes you upset. They might think that they are just trying to friendly. At the same time, think again whether insecurity that makes you jealous of him. Ideally, you need to turn on again spark-the spark of romance in the relationship, so that you can both attracted to each other back.
Sports
He plays football every Saturday and you spend the time to run. The man who always enjoyed playing and watching sports can be difficult to understand the circumstances if they have a partner who does not love the same sport.
How to copeCompromise (he could watch the big matches on TV only) and list nonolahraga activities you can do together. Next, create alternative activities to do when the couple was playing ball or run. At that time you can meet friends or do things you like so do not feel alone, tired and eventually grumpy.
